Mar 21, 2021 So when reddit user u/Remm1ngton asked, 'Ladies, what are some bad phrases you've seen on a man's dating profile?' There was no holding back. There was no holding back. And as someone who's spent. If you are having trouble with online dating, the problem is you. Let’s start with some unscientific common sense math. If we use the 80/20 rule, then 80% of guys are chasing the top 20% of women and 80% of women are chasing the top 20% of guys. This makes for some very unhappy people - both men and women. Such is life I guess. If you are having trouble with online dating, the problem is you. Let’s start with some unscientific common sense math. If we use the 80/20 rule, then 80% of guys are chasing the top 20% of women and 80% of women are chasing the top 20% of guys. This makes for some very unhappy people - both men and women. Such is life I guess.

The beauty of Tinder Reddit (r/tinder) is tons of people can anonymously share their online dating woes and triumphs.

The downside is that there’s so much well-meaning advice on r/Tinder, it’s hard to know what are actual ProLifeTips and what’s “nice guy” bs.

How does a casual r/Tinder lurker parse all these opinions and actually glean some useful info?

We’ve put together some of the best dating advice on Tinder Reddit to guide you on your quest for Tinder success.

Tinder Reddit Tip #1: “Put your damn shirt back on.”

Truth bomb.

Just because you want to immediately see a woman topless doesn’t mean she feels the same way.

In fact, even if you’ve got a fine bod, most women will tend to think you’re compensating for something else (brains, usually) if you’re half naked in your dating pics.

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Put even more aptly by u/appogiatura, “Shirtless bathroom selfies are tacky.”

Still not convinced? Check out #6 of this list.

Tinder Reddit Tip #2: “Literacy is super hot.”

“Do not initially contact me with: ‘hey,’ ‘what’s up,’ or ‘how r u.’ I don’t care if you’re the hottest, smartest, most successful man, I will not reply to a message that took the least amount of humanly effort possible.” –u/waverunnr

The bar is not high.

Even the smallest amount of creativity and effort can make a huge difference in getting responses to your Tinder openers.

Still stumped? Here are some of the best cures for Tinder writer’s block.

Tinder Reddit Tip #3: “Don’t listen to that OKCupid article, smile more.”

PREACH. 🙌

We couldn’t agree more. In fact, we did a study that showed OKCupid’s premise resulted in some of the cringiest & grumpiest looking selfies attempting to replicate smoldering straight-faced models.

The easiest way for average guys to look max attractive and appealing to women is simply flashing your pearly whites.

Tinder Reddit Tip #4: “Your opening photo has to be a good one.”

Your photos (especially the first one) make a huge difference in the way matches “hear” your messages.

In fact, you could say the same thing to the same person — just with a different main profile pic — and get a completely different reaction.

To choose your best Tinder pics, test yours on Photofeeler to see how they’re coming across to women or men in your age range.

It’s so eye-opening to learn how you’re perceived from your pics. Choosing Tinder pics this way has been known to increase match rates (and match quality) by a ton.

Go to Photofeeler.com now and give it a try!

Reddit Tinder sources: u/waverunnr and u/appogiatura.

Women claim that men are shallow and only want one thing but never even give the time of day to a nice guy with a genuine interest in getting to know them. There are exceptions I am sure, but not very many that I have seen. Too often, guys feel like they did everything right: Took her out somewhere nice, paid for everything, made her laugh, complimented her on her look and made her feel appreciated for the time she put into getting ready…And then the girl disappears or says she isn’t ready for a relationship. Classic case of nice guys finish last.

First off, no normal guy will want to rush into a relationship. Women, you are jumping ship before it even leaves the port. I understand the possibility of a nice guy turning into a clingy responsibility is scary – but that can be just as scary for us guys – if not more.

I am currently in a committed relationship with someone that I love. However, when I was dating I remember getting discouraged plenty of times and being ready to throw in the towel. I am not afraid to approach a pretty girl and politely (keyword fellas: POLITELY, not “damn ma, you fly as fuuuuuuh”) introduce myself and ask her about herself. Throughout this social experiment that we call “dating” I met several types of girls, and some women. The majority (again with a few exceptions) were girls that thought they were doing me a huge favor by talking to me. I mean, I don’t consider myself an unattractive guy or socially retarded. I did not disrespect them or give them reason to treat me like I was spraying Ebola into their face with every word that I spoke.

The fact that most guys are coming to realize is this: Most women expect too much and provide too little; and the few that are worth their weight in gold don’t realize it so their insecurities are sabotaging relationships. Good guys aren’t extinct – they are playing video games and hanging out with their friends, hiding from your crazy ass! Recently, professional video gamer Doug “FaZe Censor” Martin broke up with his super model girlfriend Yanet Garcia. FaZe claims they broke up so that he can focus more on his gaming career – and people lost their shit. This is the perfect example of how much work a relationship can be.

Below you will find an excerpt from a very interesting article I found online that talks about the decay of the dating scene from a man’s perspective:

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“Social commentators, journalists, academics, scientists and young men themselves have all spotted the trend: among men of about 15 to 30 years old, ever-increasing numbers are checking out of society altogether, giving up on women, sex and relationships and retreating into pornography, sexual fetishes, chemical addictions, video games and, in some cases, boorish lad culture, all of which insulate them from a hostile, debilitating social environment created, some argue, by the modern feminist movement.

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You can hardly blame them. Cruelly derided as man-children and crybabies for objecting to absurdly unfair conditions in college, bars, clubs and beyond, men are damned if they do and damned if they don’t: ridiculed as basement-dwellers for avoiding aggressive, demanding women with unrealistic expectations, or called rapists and misogynists merely for expressing sexual interest.” –THE SEXODUS, PART 1